5 Ways To Fail With The Law Of Attraction
1. Don’t Believe You Can Attract What You Want
This is the biggest problem most people have with the Law of Attraction. If you are not attracting what you want, on some level you don’t believe that you can attract it.
Often people will say, “I do believe I can attract it, but it still isn’t happening.” The truth is that if you believed you could attract what you want, it would be happening. Every time you say it isn’t happening, you’re telling the Universe to give you more of it not happening. Every time you feel attachment (fear, anger, sadness, etc.), you are demonstrating a belief, on some level, that you cannot manifest what you want.
2. Don’t Trust the Universe
Let’s say on Monday you decide you’re going to use the Law of Attraction to attract a mate. Then every day thereafter you look around and, feeling disappointed, say, “Where is he/she?” All you’re doing is doubting that it will happen. You’re sending out negative energy that says, “My mate isn’t here.” And so your mate doesn’t appear. You have to be patient and trust that everything will work out in the best way possible.
3. Ignore Your Negative Emotions and Thoughts
It is better to ignore your negative emotions and thoughts then to dwell on them, and end up manifesting more negativity into your life. However, if you continuously ignore them, they can prevent you from attracting your desires.
Any time you have a negative emotion or thought, it is a sign that you not only don’t believe that you can manifest your desire, but that you are also attached to your desire. Ignoring the emotion or thought won’t destroy your desire, but you will not manifest it as easily as if you eliminated your negative emotions or thoughts.
4. Ignore The Signs That You Are Attracting Your Desires
Whenever you want to manifest a desire, you will see signs of it coming before it ever arrives. For example, if you want to manifest a new car, you might receive something in the mail with a picture of your car or you might overhear a conversation about the type of car you desire. These are signs that your car is coming to you. They are also signs that you still have a little more work to do to come into alignment with the physical manifestation of your car.
If you don’t feel good about the signs you are receiving, you might want to reconsider if what you are asking for is what you truly desire or simply something that you think you should have. You should also look to see if there is a part of you that doesn’t believe you can attract your desire.
The important thing is that every time you see a sign, acknowledge it. Give thanks that what you want is coming to you.
5. Don’t Fully Commit To The Law Of Attraction
Do you actually ask the Universe for what you desire? Do you ask for every detail that you want it to have? Or do you just hope the Universe gets it right?
Do you get excited at the idea of manifesting something, but then your excitement disappears and it’s hard for you to care about it anymore? Sure it might still sound nice, but do you still get excited?
Do you regularly make lists of what you want (everything from how your day is going to go to your next business meeting to your dream house)? Or do you only make them occasionally? Does it become too much work to create your life intentionally?
The Law of Attraction is so simple…so easy…that it’s often taken for granted. Desires might only be thought about once a day or even once a week. And then people wonder why they aren’t manifesting anything.
You have to commit to the Law of Attraction. You have to be willing to pay attention to the signs the Universe is giving you. You have to be willing to take action. And, most importantly, you have to be willing to overcome any limiting beliefs you might have. Especially if a limiting belief is what is preventing you from committing to the Law of Attraction.
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