Energy Manifesting

It is really easy to get confused when studying how to manifest your desires.  Some people say you have to visualize what you want every day, others that you should only think about it once and then forget about it.  Some people say you need to think about your desires for thirty minutes at a time, while others say that seventeen seconds is enough.  Some people say you need to write what you want on a piece of paper and burn it, while others say you need to take the piece of paper, tear it up and throw it away.  So who is right?  Which one is the magic formula?  After all, they all say their way works the best. 

Well, I do not mean to confuse you more, but they are all right.  Some ways work best for some people; some ways work best for different kinds of desires.  I am sure that if you look at your life or the lives of those around you, you will see instances of different methods working.  Maybe one day you think of something once, forget about it, and then suddenly it appears.  It could be something as simple as thinking you would like an apple, forgetting about it and then everywhere you go there are apples – you see stationary with apples, apple pie, people eating apples, and a friend unexpectedly brings you a bushel of apples.  Another time maybe there was something in your life that simply the idea of it made you really excited and you could not stop thinking about it and before you knew it, it was there.  Maybe you were looking for a new job and found one that sounded like the perfect match.  You could see yourself so clearly working in the building.  You could picture the conversations you would have with your co-workers.  You could even hear your boss telling you how happy he was to have hired you.  All day long, day after day, all you did was imagine yourself in the job.  And before you knew it, the job was yours. 

So does that mean one method works best for manifesting something simple like an apple while another works better for something harder like a job?  No.  Is there an easy way to know which method to use?  No.

You see, what ultimately determines whether you will manifest your desire today, in two months, or not even in a million years is not how often your visualize your desire, the length of time you spend focusing on it, or even a ritual.  Yes, you need to get as clear as possible on what you want, down to the very last detail.  But the other conflicting things that people are telling you to do are there for a different reason.  They are ways that people have found to help them believe that their desires are coming to them.  They are ways that people have created to help them allow their desires into their lives.  They are ways to overcome attachment – that is all.  They are not magic formulas that will work perfectly every single time.  Overcoming attachment is what matters, not writing down what you want every day (who needs a hand cramp?). 

Why is overcoming attachment so important?  Because it is when you are detached from the outcome that you allow your desires into your life.  In fact, if you are completely and utterly detached from the outcome, your desires can manifest instantly.  However, the more attachment you have, the longer it will take for your desires to manifest.  In fact, if you never overcome your attachment, it is quite possible that you will never get what you want.  After all, if you are constantly worrying about something, obsessing over it without any excitement or positive feelings, and so forth, or if you think about something and then tell yourself it will never happen and go over every reason why not, then it does not matter whether you think about something once or a million times, perform a ritual under the full moon or build a bonfire, your desires will always remain desires; they will not become your reality.

To overcome attachment, you have to be okay with not getting what you want.  I know that sounds crazy.  After all, what is the point in learning how to manifest something that you deeply desire if you do not care if you ever get it?  The point it that until you are okay with not having it, you will be trying to control the outcome, telling the Universe how what you want should come to you, never trusting it to bring you what you want in the best way possible.  Ultimately, you will always have some doubt as to whether what you want is coming to you.  

For example, if you need $500 to pay your mortgage or your house will be foreclosed, you have to be okay with not getting the money.  You have to be okay with losing your house.  When you are okay with not getting what you want, then you will be allowing what you want into your life because you will no longer be focusing on what you fear.  You will not be thinking that you have to have $500 or you will lose your house.  Keep thinking that and you will lose your house because, after all, our thoughts attract to us what we think about.  When you can think that you do not need to worry about losing your house because even if you do, everything will be okay, then you will be allowing.  After all, if you do not get the money you need for your house, it could be that losing your house is the best thing because it allows you to manifest something else that you always wanted.  Or it could be that something happens that allows you to keep your house without your ever needing the $500. 

Allowing is not about asking once and forgetting about it.  Allowing is not about writing down what you want every day.  Allowing is not about thirty minutes or pieces of burnt paper.  These are different ways that might help you to get to the stage where you are okay with not getting what you want, but none of them are allowing.  Allowing is simply letting go of all control over a situation and letting whatever happens happen because whatever happens is for the best.  How your desires manifest is up to the Universe.  Allowing yourself to receive them is your job.

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In manifesting your desires, you can’t just sit around and wait for your desire to come to you. You have to take action, but not just any action, it has to be inspired action.

So, what exactly is inspired action?

It’s doing things because they feel right, not because you think you have to do them in order to get what you want. If you’re doing something because you think it’s how you’ll get what you want, you’re doing it for the wrong reason. You’re trying to control the situation. You’re trying to control how your desire will come to you. You’re not letting the Universe do its job.

The Universe will let you know when you should take action. You may get a sudden idea to call someone of the blue. You may feel compelled to go a different way home from work. You may stumble upon the business card of someone in the very line of work you’ve been looking for.

At first glance, these nudges, these inspirations, if you will, often seem completely unrelated to you attracting your desire. But they often lead you to the very thing you want. That’s why it’s so important to be on the look out for them and to act on them when they do come. To ignore them is to say “no” to your desire.

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I love reading books, especially books that help empower you to live the life of your dreams. I recently read a book that I want to share with you today.

It is Secrets of Attraction: The Universal Laws of Love, Sex and Romance by Sandra Anne Taylor. It’s a wonderful book designed to help you use Universal Laws to take control of your relationships - deciding for yourself not only the kind of person you will meet, but the type of relationship you will have with him/her.

For years, Sandra taught people how to apply Universal Laws to relationships with amazing results. In Secrets of Attraction, she has turned her techniques into an easy-to-use system that works to bring about success in love.

Her book shows you:

* How to attract the love of your life
* How to eliminate the problems you are having manifesting relationships
* How to improve all relationships you’re in now - romantic, family, friends…
* And more!

Sandra is clear that the only thing preventing people from having the relationships they desire is themselves. She provides great advice on how to stop being your own roadblock so that love can begin flowing into your life, exactly as you desire it.

In my own experience, I’ve found that love is all around us; it’s just up to us to let it into our lives.

Are you ready to let love into your life?

If so, I suggest you get Secrets of Attraction.

But only if you truly want the relationship of your dreams.

Anastasia

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We can’t control how something is going to manifest.  We can’t control how something is going to look when it finally does manifest.  We don’t know the bigger picture of how everything needs to come together so that we can attain our desires.  Only the Universe knows that.  It knows exactly how everything needs to come together so that we can have what we want when we are finally open to receiving it.  We can’t be fixated on something looking or appearing in a certain way when it does show up because we don’t know how it will happen.

Yes, it does help to be more specific when we ask so that we will attract things that more closely match what we want.  If all we ask for is a red vehicle, when what we really want is a red car, then we have to be prepared for a red truck to show up.  If the red truck shows up, but we don’t want to receive it because it doesn’t match our preconceived idea of a red vehicle being a red car, then we either have to turn our back on our desires or we have to be less ambiguous in the future.

The Universe has a sense of humor.  It’s going to do things we aren’t even going to expect.  And if we get attached to the picture of how we think something is supposed to look, not only can we miss out on wonderful experiences in our lives, but we can miss out on the very things we want to manifest.

It’s like thinking the Earth is flat because we can’t see the big picture of it from space.  All we can see is what is right in front of us - a flat Earth.  But when we look at space photographs, we can see that the Earth is round.  The preconceived idea of the Earth being flat is shattered and the reality is known.

We don’t want to disallow our desires from coming to us because we have a preconceived idea of how they should appear or how they should look when they do appear.  We have to be open to the possibilities.  When we insist on things being a certain way we miss out on the gifts that the Universe gives us.  The gifts are what’s important, not the how.

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I recently received the following question from William: ”I was wondering how would I ask to become a millionaire.  Would I say “I am a millionaire” or if that is the wrong approach what should I say?” 

Answer: While it possible to use the phrase “I am a millionaire,” you are likely to become a millionaire faster if you are more specific.

Explore why you want to be a millionaire, how it will change your life, and so forth.  Design the life that you would have as a millionaire.  Where will you live?  What kind of a house will you have?  Will you have servants?  What kind of a car will you drive?  How will you spend your days?

Determine what you mean by “millionaire.”  Do you mean that you have one million dollars or one hundred million dollars?  After all, different amounts of money produce different lifestyles.  You might want to do some research into the lifestyles of the wealthy to determine what you want.  There are various magazines that cater specifically to the wealthy, as well as book and websites that can provide you with information.

Most importantly, ask yourself if it is a million dollars that you want or the lifestyle of a millionaire.  After all, when manifesting your desires, it isn’t the how that matters.  It’s the asking and the receiving.  If what you want is the lifestyle, focus on the lifestyle.  It could come to you without your ever needing anywhere close to a million dollars.  If it truly is a specific dollar amount in your bank account that you desire, ask for it.  But if what you really want is the lifestyle that having a certain dollar amount represents, focus on the lifestyle.

When you focus on what you truly want versus what you think you have to have in order to get what you want, things happen.  Because so long as you think you have to have something before you can have your dreams, you’re making excuses that prevent you from attaining your dreams.

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• How to Clear Beliefs About Money
• How Beliefs Affect the Law of Attraction
• Money: Is There Ever Enough?
• The Role of Love in Manifesting

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